Tuesday, October 20, 2009

CRAZY PSYCHO!

This past week has been EXTREMELY STRESSFUL. My boyfriend has lived with a tyrant mother who believes she is not only god but a mother instead of a grandmother. She wants Nathan to be completely dependent on her and not fend for himself therefore never leave her. I have been nothing but nice to this woman, tlked for hours, done favors for her, smiled when i knew she was wrong etc. But she feels threatened by me because i am very independent, I take care of myself, pay for all my own things, work two jobs, go to school and have goals and plans to reach them. Since Nathan has been dating me he has gotten two new jobs one being a networking job with IBM and Dell and is going back to school to get his degree. His mom has gotten worse and wrse and has created a VERY UNSTABLE environment for her three year old grandaughter who is kept up all night listening to her Grandma SCREAMING and yelling obsence horrible things into the late hours of the night. Finally nathan decided to get out and realized they took the fuse from his car. I had to go pick him up on saunday and he is now living with me along with his daughter in my bedroom. Things are quite crowded and I seem very stressed but I am glad he got out and can be on a better path to saving his little girl.

2 comments:

  1. What a stressful and destructive situation for Nathan and his daughter. It's unfortunate that some parents cannot let go and see their children as adults. It sounds like she has emotional/mental problems from what you've said (but I do not know her).

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  2. I am sorry to hear what you all are going through, that is awful. But it is good that you are sticking by him and I wish you all luck and I hope it gets better.

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